Being a dad isn’t an easy job. I don’t think I have ever run across someone who said otherwise. But it is a job that I love and cherish every single day. I mean life in general isn’t easy, right? For me being a dad is more special than anything else in my life. You see, I had no idea that I was going to be an instant dad nearly 15 years ago, and then again just 8 short years ago. I met my son when he was just 18 months old and my daughter when she was 6. I love them both with every fiber of my being.
I was kind of just thrown into being a dad, which for me, was just as much of a blessing as if I had had my own kids and gone through birth and delivery. But even for dads who have done that, is anyone ever really ready? You can prepare for days, weeks or years, but there is no manual or instructions that will make you an instant “good dad.” But you don’t need all that mess, guys. You just have to take the time out of your day, every day, and spend time with your kids. The rest just comes as it comes.
Even though my kids are now teenagers, we still watch movies like Kung Fu Panda. And I think today, we can really take a lesson from Po and his dad. He was able to overcome some unique circumstances because of his relationship with this father. With the love and advice from dad, Po came out on top!
My dad was always very busy working to make ends meet and I love him for that. I do the same thing. Working full time and very tired much of the time. But regardless, I take time to make sure that my kids know that I am there for them no matter what. Those special days of bonding mean more to them than they will probably ever be able to express to you in their own words. And that is okay too.
What do we do?
- Cook meals together
- Do projects together (like working on their first car)
- Go fishing together
- Go hiking together
- Go Geocaching together
- Play sports
- Take spur of the moment road trips
- Watch movies and play games together
Every man is capable of being a great dad! Eighty-six percent of dads spend more time with their children today than their own fathers did with them. According to a national survey conducted by the Ad Council, a majority of dads (7 out of 10) also reported that they could use tips on how to be a better parent. But don’t sell yourself short. If you are taking time out of your day and spending time with your kids, you are a good dad. If you plan dates with your kids, you are a good dad.
If you know someone who is struggling as a dad, share this message. Fatherhood.gov and the Ad Council are asking dads everywhere to make an effort to inspire and support men in their commitment to responsible fatherhood. Involvement in the lives of your kids is essential to their well-being.
You are a wonderful Dad!
Thank you XOXOXO
what a great movie this was. Son really loved it and it had a great lesson. thanks for the awesome post about it.
Isn’t it a good movie? We have watched all of them together. Even though you would think a couple of 16 year old’s wouldn’t be interested!
It sounds like you are a good dad! All of those things you mentioned sound fun. My dad & I spent the day together on sunday. It was nice and we had a lot.of fun. He even came home with a new truck. Hah.
Now that sounds like a fun day!
I am so glad you shared this, My dad passed on when I was 4 and I always wished I had one. So I love it that my children have apresent dad who spends time with us all. It such a blessing 🙂
Such a lovely film to put on our Feb List ” will you take time be a dad today?” Its on!
Awww Sylvia, I know that has to be hard even still today! Big hugs to you! The show is so great. Our kids loved it, and they are teens!
I am so sorry to hear that Sylvia. I know it is a blessing to be there for my kids and I am sure your kids are so very thankful to have a dad to spend time with!
My husband is so awesome with my kids, I’m grateful! And for the record, I LOVE kung fu panda!